Self Confidence and How to conquer the lady´s hearts

How do you build self confidence?

I´ve seen many people without self confidence.
I like to think that the definition of self confidence is the Ability to believe in your self to accomplish any task, no matter how hard, no matter the adversity, the belief that you can accomplish it. 

It believe that it can be trained with some exercises.
With Repetition or Persistence, because many of us can repeat something but not all of us can really be persistence.
  
We have to stop this negative self talk and we need to have our own self affirmations. For Example. Something that remembers you who you are and the things you are proud of. It may same stupid but believe me, it works. If you don´t do it, who else going to tell you that? If you don´t believe in it, no one else will.

Get away from the people that are tearing you down.

Catch them when they are good.

You can apply the Self confidence on others as well,  imagine if you are trying to teach someone and he just keeps missing the point, if you just continue telling him that is not like that and that he keeps doing it wrong, what is going to happened with his self confidence? 

We know for a fact that thoughts influence actions, if you tell them what they did well, they will be more likely to improve. This applied for everything, games, life, business... Catch them when they´re good.

Self confident people interpret feed back the way that choose to. yesterday i was playing pool with my brother and a friend, in the end when we got home my dad asked how was the game, my brother said he played very well and he pocked all the balls and almost won every single game, I honestly didn't saw him winning a single game but, he have his own perception of what and how he did...

 What does it have to be with conquer hearts? 

First time I invited a girl to come to see a movie, she looked at me, and she said NO... what I did? i asked her again, again and again... because maybe she didn't see me in the right light... maybe i was wearing the wrong clothes right? Persistence and self confidence are the key for everything.

 You can find tutorials on the internet about How to get a girl, and how to improve in something but is more likely you to fail if you don't have self confidence and you can´t be persistent.

 
Don´t wait for the girl to take the initiative, it may never happen...
You have to be the one doing it, there is no perfect moment, you have to be the one turning that moment perfect.


This were the places I visit:
The Skill of Self Confidence
10 Steps to improve your Self confidence and Auto esteem